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Summary of 2023

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Summary: Reflecting on the year 2023, there were few memorable events. The individual evaluates their roles as a husband, father, and son, feeling inadequate in their performance. They express concerns about their health and relationships, and set goals for personal growth and financial stability in the coming year. Work-wise, there were challenges in the company's operations and personal growth stagnation. Plans for the future include reading books, improving emotional intelligence, and starting a personal studio.

Looking back, there are few memorable things in 23, taking this opportunity to reflect on the actions of the past 23 years.

Life#

  1. Overall, family life tends to be stable, personal performance in the roles of husband/father/son is barely satisfactory, thinking more than doing.
  2. Married to my wife for 5 years, known for 7 years, now referred to as dad by the child, doing things as a husband less and less, can't feel the word "care" anymore.
  3. The child suddenly clings to me, but I don't know how to be a good father, often feeling anxious and powerless.
  4. At the end of June, my mother had surgery for atrial fibrillation, not accompanying her throughout the hospital stay was inappropriate, now with elderly parents and young children, mentally feeling like a child, not taking on the responsibilities and obligations.
  5. Personal health issues arise, had kidney stone surgery in the first half of the year, found kidney stones in the year-end check-up, occasional chest tightness, lack of exercise and too lazy to take it seriously.
  6. Relationship with my brother has improved, emotional intelligence still needs improvement.
  7. In October, set up a personal blog, simultaneously writing for WeChat public account and Xiaohongshu, initial intention was to make some money, hoping to persist.
  8. Started listening to podcasts during commuting to work, realizing the lack of knowledge in the past, feeling more and more the gap in abilities and inadequacies in actions.
  9. Completed the family budget for 24, started keeping accounts with my wife, gradually improving the stability of family finances.

Work#

  1. The company's operation encountered some problems, everyone is worried, hoping the company will get better, but no solution in sight.
  2. Worked on some meaningful projects this year, widely applied in business, but personal growth has significantly slowed down, unsure about the future.
  3. Planning to create my own studio in the future, currently have no idea where to start, how to break down the goal, and how to prepare.

24-Year Plan#

  1. Read 6 books (one every two months, hoping to complete), improve emotional intelligence to provide more stable emotional value for the family.
  2. Reduce weight to 130 pounds through exercise, improve health, enhance the family's risk resistance.
  3. Break down the goal of creating a studio, take the first step, and slowly start trial and error.
  4. Financial return of 4% for the whole year.
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